Couples & Relationship Coaching
Shimon Perry
Private Relationship Coach
I work with couples and individuals who keep having the same conversation and getting nowhere. I help them slow down, see the pattern they're both caught in, and actually hear each other sometimes for the first time.
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Does this sound familiar?
One of you pushes. The other pulls away.
You explain yourself. They hear criticism.
You argue about something small and end up somewhere old.
Frustrated. Disconnected. Unheard.
You both want to be understood. Neither feels heard.
That is exactly where I come in.
What clients say
The things I'd been telling him for two years finally landed when someone outside the loop said them.
K. & P.
He kind of got us. There were things he pointed out and it was like, oh wow, yeah, I do do that.
E. & T.
There's another person here who can help us see things we might not be seeing.
E. & T.
Ready to talk?
Start with a free 20 minute call. No commitment. Just a conversation.
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Start on your own
You can begin working on the pattern from your side. Individual sessions help you understand what's happening, find your own clarity, and show up differently in the relationship. One person changing how they show up changes the dynamic.
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Start as a couple
You both participate. Sometimes together, sometimes individually, because real change often needs space to breathe. We identify the pattern you're both caught in and build a different way through it.
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How it works
1
Book a free 20 minute call.
2
We figure out if this is the right fit.
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Start a block of three sessions.
4
Decide together what comes next.
Coaching is not covered by insurance. Sessions conducted via Zoom.
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Shimon Perry
Private Relationship Coach · Riverdale, New York
I'm a certified relationship coach and I work with couples and individuals who feel stuck in the same patterns. The same fight. The same distance. The same conversation that goes nowhere.
I came to this work through a long career in technology and teaching, where I noticed that most problems whether in a startup, a team, or a marriage, come down to the same thing. Two people who want to be understood and neither one feeling heard.
I'm trained in Gottman methodology, one of the most research-backed frameworks for couples communication, and I hold an Associate Certified Coach credential from the International Coaching Federation.
What I bring is simpler than credentials. I see patterns quickly. I hear what's underneath what people say. And I know how to help two people slow down long enough to actually listen to each other.
I'm also a parent, a teacher, and someone who has sat in hard conversations himself. I'm not here to tell you what to do. I'm here to help you see what's happening between you, so you can decide what comes next.
Forward focused. Practical. Real change.
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ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC)
Gottman Informed
Riverdale, New York
Sessions via Zoom
The work
Sessions are one hour, conducted via Zoom. I work with each partner individually and together, because real change often needs space to breathe.
Most couples see meaningful shifts within three sessions. We work in blocks, not open-ended commitments.
See how it works
Let's talk.
Start with a free 20 minute call. No commitment. Just a conversation to see if this is the right fit.
Prefer email? coach@shimonperry.com